Life, lectures, laptops and long walks

Well it’s the first day of a new semester and the first thing I learned is that going from class to class every monday, wednesday, and friday is going to give me a hell of a workout, especially considering that I was stupid/smart enough to have all four classes on three days and I have to drag around my bag containing at least four books and my laptop, my notebook, and variuous other items all over hell and half of Georgia. I mean I have to walk from the blazer across to the KUC for breakfast since the new diet is in it’s cleansing stages and I have to have a fruit smoothie for breakfast, then back to the BAS. In the BAS it’s up two flights of stairs to class and the back down two to head to the next ones. I then walk to PH, the devil’s maze, and up a flight of stairs for one class then up another for the next one. Then I’m back at the KUC for who knows what for lunch, which is a two hour break. From there it’s the KOM and up at least a flight of stairs for the last class of the day. When the day finally ends I have to walk all the way across campus to the blazer and head home.

Campus looks like someone dumped the entire high school population of the county on top of it, and it’s so crowded that I can barely breathe. This is insane. I went to lunch and stood in line for thirty minutes just to get some food then fifteen more to pay for it. It’s a good thing I have that long break between classes or I’d never get time to eat. I just hope that things thin out when all. the freshman and transfer students figure out what’s going on and where they are going. You can tell who is new because they walk around with maps in front of their faces. I spent a great deal of time pointing out buildings and giving directions. 

Classwise the schedule goes something like this:
The Legal Environment of Business 9:10-10:05 I have a bad feeling about this class. I think it may be like that terrible Economics class I had in highschool that made me want to die. The professor seems to be a little weird and we’re going to have to do things like group projects and stuff. The midterm review is going to be a game. I just hope that the course material ios enough to keep me engaged and paying attention.
US Presidency 10:20-11:15 Patrick’s class, though I suppose I’ll have to call him Mr. Chinnery or Mr. C. I think I’ll like that class, it seems like it’s going to be a good one to take. I’m at least somewhat excited about that course.
Folk and Fairy Tales, Myths and Legends 11:30-12:25 Dr. Hixon looks sort of crazy, but other than the stupid group project thing I think that the class is going to be fun. I talked to a few people who had her and turns out she’d really great.
The Political Status of Women 2:20-3:45 Dr. Peterson is really cool; I’ve had her before and really liked her class. She’s sarcastic and a smartass but I think that may be why I like her so much. Not a fan of the group project thing, but I’ll live. I just wish she’d allow the use of laptops to take notes since I type faster than I write sometimes.

Midnight conversations with shadows on the wall

In other words, some rather interesting thoughts from the mind of your faithful blogger, Lucky. Before you start worrying about things, Lucky is still sane. Well as sane as anyone can be really. Let’s face it, none of us are as sane as we would like people to believe. But alas I’m getting way off track here and really should return to the subject at hand.

So I’ve just come from the shower, gotten dressed and opened iTunes, which means I’m feeling rather relaxed. And that brings me to my first thought. The shower seems to be the place where I do my best thinking, feel the most secure with myself, and am the most relaxed. I think it’s because a solo shower is the one place you should feel the most comfortable with yourself. Honestly, if you can’t take a shower alone and not care what anyone thinks or what you look like, then I think maybe you need to chill and enjoy washing away the days trouble and strife. A solo shower is no pressure cause no one is looking, unless you have shower gremlins or something. [Disclaimer: Shower gremlins don't actually exist.]

Second thought; sometimes I have interesting conversations with the shadows on my walls. They remind me of things. Sometimes they ask me questions, like the other night. “Why don’t you write like you used to?” “Why have you stopped trying to fly?” “Why do you hold yourself back with the past?” “Why do you fear?” Sometimes I have no answers, but other times I answer, writing in the journal I keep hidden. Yes even Lucky doesn’t tell all in her usually quite blunt and honest blog. [Disclaimer: Lucky is not crazy, it's a metaphor for self realization.]

Third thought; why is everyone so fake, even I’m guilty of it at times. Why can’t people just be real? I mean then no one would have to worry about being caught in a lie, or people seeing the “real” person they are. Dude, how bad can the real you be? So you are a chick who loves action flicks instead of romantic comedies, big deal. So you are a guy who can cook, big deal. Quirks are lovable and fun, they make us unique. Trust me everyone has some quirk they are hiding because they think it is embarrassing when in all reality its just different.

Final thought; Just because everything around you seems different doesn’t mean that everything around you changed. Perhaps it was you who changed, and the world just stayed the same. Maybe you grew up, maybe you learned something. Perhaps it’s that you have opened your eyes, heart, and mind. This is a good thing and we should embrace it. [Disclaimer: Lucky is not a guru or wise woman, she is merely stating the facts.]

42 things that girls should do for guys…

Everyone thinks about the things guys should do for their girls, and that’s all fine, well, and good. But then they forget that guys are people too. There are just some things that we, the female population, should do for the guys in our lives. We often expect a great deal from them, and sometimes we are not as grateful for what they do as we should be. Oh and please remember people! What do the Pirates say? “These are more like guidelines, than actual rules…” I know there are exceptions to everything and everyone is different. I know these are not essential to a wonderful relationship.

1. As much as you want to talk about past relationships, keep it to a minimum, unless he asks. You don’t want him to feel like he’s in competition with anyone.
2. Every guy has a ‘geeky’ side of him. Whether it be video games, DVD, WoW, anime, football among other sports, or whatever. Don’t make fun of him if you don’t like it, either tolerate it, or learn to like it. DO NOT try to change him. If he’s constantly ignoring you for that hobby of his, tell him.
3. When you hug the boy, hold tight. It doesn’t hurt to rest your head on him either.
4. Compromise for movies. Watch his favorite movies and he’ll give in for the movie you want to see.
5. Sometimes pay for the date! I know guys hate this, but if he takes you out constantly, it’s more than likely he’s going to be poor! Treat him sometime. Even if you just buy the snacks!
6. Hold his hand!! Even in the mall when you have a ton of bags, hold his hand.
7. Don’t run away from his favorite stores, if you don’t like them! Watch him. Gift ideas!!
8. Any time your guy gives you a compliment, don’t just roll your eyes. He means it, and you should smile and say thank you.
9. Guys are pressured to take the relationship to a “deeper level”. Stupid society. Anyway, if you dont want that in a relationship, tell him before things get too complicated! You can compromise too. If you are uncomfortable with something, STOP.
10. “Fine” or “whatever” is not an appropriate ending to a conversation. Only makes matters worse.
11. Life isn’t a drama or a movie. This is real life, people. They don’t often come with a sword, armor, and a white steed. If they do come with armor, it’s typically rusty. If they come with a white steed; it’s probably slow. And if they come with a sword { which is strange, but mine came with many}; it has probably never slain a dragon or defended a castle.
12. NEVER EVER kick them in the place below the belt. Even in a fight or argument, just don’t do it.
13. TRUST HIM. Don’t scream when he looks at another girl. We know you were goggling at the cute guy that just passed. It’s nature. Don’t dig through his phonebook, and hey, guys can have female friends just like girls can have male friends. If this makes things awkward, talk about it.
14. This should go without saying. Love him for who he is! Don’t worry about what others think. Don’t try to change him into what’s cool and hip. Some compromises can be made, and tell him that if he ever has a problem you changing him, to tell you.
15. In an argument, just because society stereotypes women as being smarter, more mature, and men as dumb and immature, doesn’t mean you are always right.
16. Listen to him. Even if it’s something you don’t want to hear. Good communication is key.
17. Cook. It may sound stereotypical, but a lot of guys like having a meal cooked for them. A lot of it is the thought, but if you truly are terrible, then maybe this isn’t one you should try. If you know how to cook, maybe teach him, or you both can learn together.
18. Sing. Many girls underestimate how well they sing. You don’t have to be able to sing 10 octaves or whatever. Don’t be embarrassed to sing in front of a guy, just let yourself go a bit and have some fun.
19. A girl has the right to show off her body, but keep your pride and dignity. Be careful! If you show off too much, guys (and just people in general) may get the wrong message and make assumptions.
20. Just like girls want girl time, guys want guy time. Giving your guy space to hang with his friends is not only fair, but it shows you trust him in a way.
21. Respect the guy for who he is, not because he earns your respect. Guys relate to each other on a respect level, and if you want him to open up to you, he has to know that you don’t look down on him.
22. Let your guy take pictures of you. He may not admit it, but that picture will probably be with him always. Even if you think it looks horrible.
23. Don’t always expect the guy to be the one to call. It is okay to call your boyfriend on occasion, and it shows him that you care about him and are thinking about him. And don’t get upset if for some reason he doesn’t have time to talk. He does have a life
24. Remind him that you appreciate all the sweet little things he does for you. Let him know it’s not all in vain.
25. If a guy uses a key to let you into his car, reach over and open the door before he gets to it. I know this may be common sense to most girls, but you know, some do not do this. It’s a tiny little action that can make a guy go “Hey, she’s considerate.”
26. Let the guy open the door for you or do any other chivalric action. He’s fulfilling your wish for a gentleman, don’t deny him the chance to do something nice for you. Thank him! You are doing all these wonderful things for him, let him return the favor.
27. Communicate with him. Tell him directly what’s on your mind. You can always hope that he’ll get your subtle hints or body language, but if it’s important, you’re better off using words. Guys aren’t always in tune with our subtlety.
28. Sometimes you have to take the initiative. Don’t always wait for him to come to you, because if that’s how it always is, you’re going to lose him.
29. If they buy you jewelry, wear it around them, even if you don’t like it. They will appreciate it, because it’s the thought that counts.
30. A word of appreciation now and then regarding his protective/kind/chivalrous attitude will go miles toward the end. You won’t regret it.
31. When you are talking to a guy you are interested in, lean in, touch his arm or hand, while your talking. Physical touch communicates interest and value.
32. Whether it’s from across the room or while your talking let him know that you are only interested in what he has to said. So look into his eyes and smile.
33. Never judge him based on his friends. They may give some insight, but sometimes guys as well as girls can befriend people that are completely opposite of themselves because they like the change. Don’t let who he hangs around with be the deciding factor of your judgments about him. Get to know him.
34. Cute is what he is when he does something goofy, not how you should compliment his looks.Tell him he looks handsome… or any other word you’d use to describe James Bond. Just like you want to be called beautiful, he’d rather be handsome.
35. Let him know you’re on his side and that you support him and believe in him.
36. Call him instead of IMing or e-mail. Let him talk to you and hear your voice. Note: sometimes, it can’t be helped. Long distance relationships are sometimes forced to use AIM. In this case, use a camera!! You can see him and hear him.
37. Write him letters! If you want to tell him something but just can’t come up with the words in person, take the time to write them down. He’ll appreciate it because he can read word for word how you feel for him over and over again, and you know he won’t forget it.
38. Girls should do little things for guys. If they ask for a drink, just get it for them cause they don’t ask often. Or surprise them with little gifts (even if homemade) it’ll show them that you care about them and thought about them during the day, even if they don’t admit it, they like it as much as we do
39. DON’T CHEAT ON HIM! IT’S NEVER WORTH IT! He WILL find out one way or another and odds are you guys are through. Whether you were already split up or still dating… you’ll be lucky if he still wants to be your friend!
40. Forgive him. Not hundreds of times for the same mistakes, but relationships are going to have problems and there will be apologies on both sides… Forgiveness is a huge part of a relationship. You may not always want to do it, and he will definitely not always deserve it, but then again, we don’t necessarily always deserve forgiveness either…
41. If you know that you and the one you are with should end the relationship, have the integrity and respect to tell them that the relationship is over. Do not just leave and never speak to them again. It’s not fair.
42. Don’t mess with a guy if you know they like you. This could cause the end of a friendship. If he’s your friend, be a friend. Leading him on is just wrong; chances are he likes you even though he knows he doesn’t have a shot, and letting him think he has one then yanking it away is just plain bitchy, no other word for it.

Nonsensical Nothings… ok not so much

It’s been a while since I’ve done a real update on things here in the land of Lucky, so I suppose it’s that time again.

Oh the burden of this presidency…
Actually it’ s not as bad as I make it sound, though I’m not sure how much I enjoy my job. Ok so Lucky is president of the “mock trial society”, yeah that’s our official title, at the college and it means she doesn’t get to just run a single team, she has to run a whole organization. Yay! The thing is being president means that I have to handle contacting alumni to get help, keeping a contact sheet with all the numbers, deal with newbies, deal with the coaches, and a bunch of other stuff. I also had to help with recruitment because no one else would do it. Oh hoorah for hours on end of freshmen rolling their eyes at me and asking me countless times if I had the “stamp” at my booth. But the biggest thing is Presidium, the presidential retreat for all campus organization presidents. Not looking forward to that for a variety of reasons.

You’ve got the question of the case all wrong…
More mock trial madness readers. They’ve released the case summary for this year and I’m not happy about it. We are doing a sentencing hearing instead of the guilt phase of the trial. I wanted a cool criminal trial so bad it wasn’t funny, I feel betrayed. I mean the defendant stabbed the victim with an HIV infected needle, plead guilty to first degree assault, and now we are going to quibble over whether the defendant gets a a year or three years. I think the real questions are should the defendant sue council for allowing him/her to make the deal, and should prosecution be fired for taking the deal? I mean where is the excitement, the case seems so trivial and mundane now.

Healthy mind, healthy body, healthy soul…
Well the time has come for Lucky to get healthy. There is no doubt about it; I need to get fit and it’s time I get there. Spoony is coming in October, more on that later, and besides that I’ve been needing to lose weight. No matter what he says or anyone else says fro that matter, I know that I’m fat and I know it’s a bad thing. I think that if I get healthy I’ll feel better and if I feel better maybe things will be better all around. Its a necessity.

At last our time is coming; we’ll be together…
Just my elegant way of saying without screaming in joy that Spoony is moving back to the TN. So I know exactly where his new house will be cause he showed me when he came to visit earlier. And I’m already planning the party and we’re going to have it at park, cold or not, the same place we had his going away party over two years ago when he left for AZ. It’s exciting and frightening to know that things are going to change for us again. But I’m ready for a change. I love him.